Constant suppression of emotions in each relationship is kind of normal. Actually, people often tend to consciously or subconsciously suppress their emotions for a certain purpose. However, this is not always the best option because a thing may evolve in something very wrong. Hidden feelings of negative nature may result in silence abuse and seriously damage the relationship.
People who are bonded and plan their future together must never allow having negative hidden emotions. When this negative vibration between the two partners might erupt into a silent war with serious casualties. Below you can see the 7 signs that show there is a silence abuse in a relationship:
- THEY ALWAYS FIND A WAY TO MAKE YOU FEEL GUILTY
If you are a subject of constant silence abuse this must be the red alert. The abuse will always find a way to spin the things in their favor and make you feel guilty about anything in particular. They will lack empathy and understanding when you need them the most and you will often be left thinking that something is wrong with you. In most of cases, deep inside you will be sure that you are innocent and right.
- THEY ACT RUDE TOWARDS YOU WITHOUT RAISING THEIR VOICE
According to science, people communicate much more with gestures than words. Cynical and toxic people, on the other hand, change the intonation of their voice and use unusual vocabulary that makes others confused and even hurt. If you are being silently abused in a relationship, you should know very well how this feels. When rudeness takes such toxic form, you need to ‘open the cards’ and fight for yourself.
- THEY MAKE JOKES AT THE EXPENSE OF YOUR SELF-ESTEEM
If they hurt your self-esteem in such a nasty way, then you should consider the future of this relationship. Good partners tend to boost the morale and self-confidence of their loved ones and when they do the exact opposite there is a huge issue. This is a sign of jealousy for sure, but it may evolve in hatred and mistrust.
4.THEY GIVE YOU THE COLD SHOULDER WHEN THEY DON’T GET WHAT THEY WANT
They are obsessed with the benefits of the relationship- either emotional or material. If they see themselves as the ultimate masters of the relationship who have the sole right to everything you need to step up for yourself. When they act weird when they don’t get what they want, they should talk about it and try to fix it. Giving the cold shoulder means more problems in the future.
5.THEY DON’T REALLY PAY ATTENTION TO YOU WHEN YOU TALK
You need to secure your safe space for expression. Everybody deserves to get attention to what they have to say, especially from their relationship partners. Communication is a crucial element of each relationship.
- THEY GENERATE CULTURE OF FEAR IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP
Be aware, people who cultivate negative emotions in a relationship are not good partners. Fear is probably the strongest emotion alongside love. If one of the partners works hard for fear to take over, then suffering and pain is what’s coming next.
7.THEY MAKE YOU FEEL LIKE YOUR COMPLAINTS ARE INVALID
As we already mentioned, manipulation in a relationship takes many forms. They will try to ruin your complaints, but you need to stand still and fight for your individual rights.